Whatsoever you are scared of in life will automatically control your life.
The reason you are scared of something is that you do not know more about that thing.
When you are scared of something, It means you have decided to leave that thing or that area of your life in the dark.
So long as you have decided to leave that thing or that area of your life in the dark, you will always be scared of it.
If you want to have control over that thing or that area of your life, not to ever be scared of it again, try shinning your light in that area of your life. Try shinning your light in that thing that you are so scared of.
When you do, you will expose every secret about that thing that you have always been scared of and that will be the end of your fear for that thing.
The truth is God has not given us the spirit of fear. But of love, boldness and sound mind.
